%title Way torn up about this...
%date 2009-07-22 22:53:22
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On Wed, Jul 22, 2009 at 3:30 PM, Donna<donna@xxx> wrote:
&gt; The story I got from the sheriff's deputy was a bit disjointed,  He was
&gt; pretty shaken up by the whole thing and the friends were not being very
&gt; cooperative.  P and R and 1 or 2 friends went out to get some
&gt; drugs.  P and R crushed the pills and injected them in the car and
&gt; passed out immediately.  The friend(s) drove them home and just thought they
&gt; were passed out.  They took them into the house and checked on them an hour
&gt; later and found them dead.  The friends then freaked out and it took a few
&gt; hours for them to call the police and they kept giving different stories.
&gt;  
&gt; The police showed up to what they thought was a crime scene and the dogs
&gt; wouldn't let them near the bodies so they had to call animal control.  The
&gt; house didn't have any electricity, the windows were all open and it was full
&gt; of cockroaches and filthy.  The police are going to keep trying to find the
&gt; person who sold them the drugs but no one is talking.  They are not viewing
&gt; it as homicide because P and R took the drugs willingly.
&gt;  
&gt; Thats all the info I have.  It would have really helped if they had a will
&gt; so we could have kept their ashes together and known more info about the
&gt; dogs.  Without being able to marry or a will, their wishes can't be enforced
&gt; and I am dead certain that P would have wanted his ashes to be with
&gt; R's.  They loved each other so much. I'm glad they were together when
&gt; they died and they went very quickly.
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&gt; On Wed, Jul 22, 2009 at 3:06 PM, <rannafox@xxx> wrote:
&gt;&gt;
&gt;&gt; Mom,
&gt;&gt;
&gt;&gt; Thanks for letting me know what's going on with the remains and the dogs -
&gt;&gt; I hope things work out with M.
&gt;&gt;
&gt;&gt; When you and H were talking, you mentioned something about a couple of
&gt;&gt; friends; all I knew was that you had received a call. If it's not too much
&gt;&gt; trouble or too weird of a request, what's the story behind what happened?
&gt;&gt; I'm curious for more information because this is affecting me more than I
&gt;&gt; thought it would. It's not that P and I were terribly close, but I did
&gt;&gt; look up to the devotion in his and R's relationship.
&gt;&gt;
&gt;&gt; Love,
&gt;&gt; Matt
&gt;&gt;
&gt;&gt; On Jul 22, 2009 2:51pm, Donna <donna@xxx> wrote:
&gt;&gt; &gt; Hi Matt,
&gt;&gt; &gt;
&gt;&gt; &gt;  
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&gt;&gt; &gt; It was so nice to see you and James yesterday.  I'm glad you could make
&gt;&gt; &gt; it.
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&gt;&gt; &gt; I talked to R's brother again.  They are going to save his ashes
&gt;&gt; &gt; and bury them when his dad dies.  I was hoping that P and R could
&gt;&gt; &gt; have their ashes stay together.  If they were married, it would not be an
&gt;&gt; &gt; issue.  Their insensitivity is upsetting but I keep telling myself that it
&gt;&gt; &gt; is just ashes.
&gt;&gt; &gt;
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&gt;&gt; &gt; I talked to the shelter manager where his dogs were taken.  Apparently,
&gt;&gt; &gt; the animal control officer was very shaken up by the situation since the
&gt;&gt; &gt; dogs wouldn't leave P and were so protective.  They haven't done the
&gt;&gt; &gt; temperment testing yet to determine if they are adoptable because they were
&gt;&gt; &gt; so traumatized, but maybe tomorrow.  I gave them P's full name and they
&gt;&gt; &gt; are going to try and find a vet in the area who may have seen the dogs
&gt;&gt; &gt; because they don't even know the dogs' names.  I don't think I can take 3
&gt;&gt; &gt; more dogs.  I tried checking on flights down there to check on them myself
&gt;&gt; &gt; but it is pretty expensive.
&gt;&gt; &gt;
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&gt;&gt; &gt; I got in touch with M's husband and left a message but she hasn't
&gt;&gt; &gt; called back.  I hope we can get her to sign the consent form for the
&gt;&gt; &gt; cremation.
&gt;&gt; &gt;
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&gt;&gt; &gt; Talk to you soon.
&gt;&gt; &gt;
&gt;&gt; &gt; Love,
&gt;&gt; &gt;
&gt;&gt; &gt; Mom
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