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writing/sawtooth/limerent-object/index.md

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 ### Using romance beats
 
-* [ ] Goal/agenda
+1. [ ] Goal/agenda
     * [ ] A: Likes Kay, emotional literacy
     * [ ] B: Left pastoral life/path, no love = okay
-* [ ] Meet cute
+2. [ ] Meet cute (working backwards)
     * [ ] A: Library
-* [ ] No way #1
+3. [ ] No way #1
     * [ ] A: Wouldn't work
     * [ ] B: Good that I left. Besides, used to celibacy
-* [ ] Stuck together
+4. [ ] Stuck together
     * [ ] A: Lunches
-* [ ] No way #2
-    * [ ] A: Limerence is egodystonic
+5. [ ] No way #2
+    * [ ] A: [Limerence is egodystonic](71)
     * [ ] B: Reaffirm left, even if faith = very important
-* [ ] Bone town
-    * [ ] A: Visit, finally acknowledge feelings may be real
-* [ ] Seeds of doubt
+6. [ ] Bone town
+    * [ ] A: [Visit, finally acknowledge feelings may be real
+7. [ ] Seeds of doubt
     * [ ] Wallow #1 - I knew better when...
         * [ ] A: Weird concert/dinner
-        * [ ] B: Discernment
+        * [ ] B: Discernment - discussion with Borenson
     * [ ] Retreat - soft spots exposed
         * [ ] A: Back to hotel, then hike by himself, talking with god
-        * [ ] B: Discernment
+        * [ ] B: Discernment - struggling with self definition
     * [ ] Choose fear - break up!
         * [ ] A: Hanging out, reading ???: totes not going to work out
-        * [ ] B: Discernment
+        * [ ] B: Discernment - talk with god, decide to go with it
     * [ ] Wallow #2
         * [ ] A: Going home, feeling rough re: giving up
-        * [ ] B: Coming home after discernment
-* [ ] Choose love
+        * [ ] B: Discernment - leaving
+8. [ ] Choose love
     * [ ] A: Decide maybe it's worth it as a way to move forward for once
-* [ ] Plan
+9. [ ] Plan
     * [ ] A: Drafts email
     * [ ] B: Talks to god
-* [ ] Grand gesture
+10. [ ] Grand gesture
     * [ ] A: The Conversation™
-* [ ] Ends with "no" 
+11. [ ] Ends with "no" 
     * [ ] A: Kay had picked up on it, decides pretty firmly on her end that she wants to keep friendship. Sigh, ah well
-* [ ] Payoff
+12. [ ] Payoff
     * [ ] A: Limerence fades, settle back into new, more open friendship/what could have been
     * [ ] B: Doubt fades, settle into lay life/what could have been
-* [ ] Epilogue/hope
+13 [ ] Epilogue/hope
     * [ ] A: Plans another visit/okay being friends
     * [ ] B: Starts volunteering MH counselling services at church.