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@ -119,6 +119,7 @@ erotica writing/sawtooth/party/1-3-breeding-pair.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth
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erotica writing/sawtooth/party/1-4-hostess.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/party/1-4-hostess\twriting/sawtooth/party/1-4-hostess
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erotica writing/sawtooth/party/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/party/index\twriting/sawtooth/party/index
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erotica writing/the-second-ridge.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/the-second-ridge\twriting/the-second-ridge
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essay-collection writing/its-not-about-the-dishes/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/its-not-about-the-dishes/index\twriting/its-not-about-the-dishes/index
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etc diary/2020-04-22.md 64;" vimwiki:diary/2020-04-22\tdiary/2020-04-22#etc
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executive-function diary/2020-04-09.md 1;" vimwiki:diary/2020-04-09\tdiary/2020-04-09
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executive-function diary/2020-04-10.md 1;" vimwiki:diary/2020-04-10\tdiary/2020-04-10
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@ -238,6 +239,7 @@ fiction writing/sawtooth/the-fool.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/the-fool\twrit
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fiction writing/sawtooth/what-defines-us.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/what-defines-us\twriting/sawtooth/what-defines-us#fiction
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fiction writing/sawtooth/what-remains-of-yourself.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/what-remains-of-yourself\twriting/sawtooth/what-remains-of-yourself
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fiction writing/sawtooth/youre-gone.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/youre-gone\twriting/sawtooth/youre-gone#fiction
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fiction writing/surgery-novel/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/surgery-novel/index\twriting/surgery-novel/index
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fiction writing/the-second-ridge.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/the-second-ridge\twriting/the-second-ridge
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flash-fiction writing/sawtooth/fisher.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/fisher\twriting/sawtooth/fisher#flash-fiction
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flash-fiction writing/sawtooth/folding-laundry.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/folding-laundry\twriting/sawtooth/folding-laundry
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@ -268,6 +270,7 @@ gender writing/rum-and-coke/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/rum-and-coke/index\twri
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gender writing/rum-and-coke/what-i-expected.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/rum-and-coke/what-i-expected\twriting/rum-and-coke/what-i-expected
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gender writing/sawtooth/disapperance.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/disapperance\twriting/sawtooth/disapperance#gender
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gender writing/sawtooth/the-fool.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/the-fool\twriting/sawtooth/the-fool#gender
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gender writing/surgery-novel/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/surgery-novel/index\twriting/surgery-novel/index
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horror writing/belek.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/belek\twriting/belek
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horror writing/inner-demons/content/a-010.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/inner-demons/content/a-010\twriting/inner-demons/content/a-010
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horror writing/inner-demons/content/a-020.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/inner-demons/content/a-020\twriting/inner-demons/content/a-020
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@ -313,6 +316,7 @@ metafurry writing/rum-and-coke/how-many.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/rum-and-coke/how-
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metafurry writing/rum-and-coke/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/rum-and-coke/index\twriting/rum-and-coke/index
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metafurry writing/rum-and-coke/what-i-expected.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/rum-and-coke/what-i-expected\twriting/rum-and-coke/what-i-expected
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movement writing/sawtooth/fisher.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/fisher\twriting/sawtooth/fisher#movement
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non-fiction writing/its-not-about-the-dishes/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/its-not-about-the-dishes/index\twriting/its-not-about-the-dishes/index
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novel writing/consequences-of-dissonance/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/consequences-of-dissonance/index\twriting/consequences-of-dissonance/index
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novel writing/inner-demons/content/a-010.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/inner-demons/content/a-010\twriting/inner-demons/content/a-010
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novel writing/inner-demons/content/a-020.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/inner-demons/content/a-020\twriting/inner-demons/content/a-020
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novel writing/sawtooth/party/1-3-breeding-pair.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/party/1-3-breeding-pair\twriting/sawtooth/party/1-3-breeding-pair
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novel writing/sawtooth/party/1-4-hostess.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/party/1-4-hostess\twriting/sawtooth/party/1-4-hostess
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novel writing/sawtooth/party/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/party/index\twriting/sawtooth/party/index
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novel writing/surgery-novel/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/surgery-novel/index\twriting/surgery-novel/index
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outline writing/post-self/qoheleth/index.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/post-self/qoheleth/index\twriting/post-self/qoheleth/index#outline
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package tech/md-ext/editing.md 2;" vimwiki:tech/md-ext/editing\ttech/md-ext/editing
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package tech/md-ext/verse.md 2;" vimwiki:tech/md-ext/verse\ttech/md-ext/verse
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poetry writing/eigengrau.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/eigengrau\twriting/eigengrau
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poetry writing/eigengrau/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/eigengrau/index\twriting/eigengrau/index
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poetry writing/poetry/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/poetry/index\twriting/poetry/index
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polyam writing/its-not-about-the-dishes/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/its-not-about-the-dishes/index\twriting/its-not-about-the-dishes/index
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polyam writing/rum-and-coke/how-many.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/rum-and-coke/how-many\twriting/rum-and-coke/how-many
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polyam writing/sawtooth/a-theory-of-attachment.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/a-theory-of-attachment\twriting/sawtooth/a-theory-of-attachment#polyam
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post-self writing/post-self/apres-un-reve.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/post-self/apres-un-reve\twriting/post-self/apres-un-reve
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writing writing/inner-demons/content/c-040.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/inner-demons/content/c-040\twriting/inner-demons/content/c-040
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writing writing/inner-demons/content/epilogue.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/inner-demons/content/epilogue\twriting/inner-demons/content/epilogue
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writing writing/inner-demons/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/inner-demons/index\twriting/inner-demons/index
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writing writing/its-not-about-the-dishes/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/its-not-about-the-dishes/index\twriting/its-not-about-the-dishes/index
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writing writing/jaroudi/asoub/1.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/jaroudi/asoub/1\twriting/jaroudi/asoub/1
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writing writing/jaroudi/asoub/2.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/jaroudi/asoub/2\twriting/jaroudi/asoub/2
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writing writing/jaroudi/asoub/3.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/jaroudi/asoub/3\twriting/jaroudi/asoub/3
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writing writing/sawtooth/what-defines-us.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/what-defines-us\twriting/sawtooth/what-defines-us#writing
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writing writing/sawtooth/what-remains-of-yourself.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/what-remains-of-yourself\twriting/sawtooth/what-remains-of-yourself
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writing writing/sawtooth/youre-gone.md 3;" vimwiki:writing/sawtooth/youre-gone\twriting/sawtooth/youre-gone#writing
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writing writing/surgery-novel/index.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/surgery-novel/index\twriting/surgery-novel/index
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writing writing/the-second-ridge.md 2;" vimwiki:writing/the-second-ridge\twriting/the-second-ridge
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* [O] [ally](https://ally.id)
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* [O] [Post-Self](post-self/index)
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* [.] [*untitled surgery novel*](surgery-novel/index)
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* [.] [It's Not About The Dishes](its-not-about-the-dishes/index)
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* Poetry:
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* [X] [Eigengrau](eigengrau)
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* [O] [Ongoing](poetry/index)
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%title It's Not About The Dishes
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:writing:non-fiction:essay-collection:polyam:
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* [ ] It's not about the dishes --- root cause analysis to work through strife
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* [ ] Catering to the one with the most restrictions
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* [ ] Witnessing ("the basic human need to be watched was once satisfied by God" Deus Ex, but it's a good quote)
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* [ ] relationships as coping mechanisms for upbringing
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* [ ] methodlogies - retrospectives, standups, and other enterprisey bullshit that can actually kind of help
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%title Untitled Surgery Novel
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:writing:fiction:novel:gender:
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I had my own surgery in 2018, and my therapist suggested I write about my experience anonymously so that she could share it with one of her other clients who was looking at going through a similar process. That she did so a year before I started writing this is neither here nor there.
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Either way, While Justice's story closely follows my own in a lot of respects, it isn't 100% the same. It's the type of thing I'd like to be readable without losing any of the informative aspects. A lot of the process of going through surgery is incredibly recondite and awkward, and there's no escaping that. The goal of this project is, first and foremost, to tell a story, but a close second is to provide an example of what one can expect in going through this process. To that end, I hope it helps.
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> To my mom, who changed my birthday to my surgery date.
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## Outline
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Justice - trans woman getting GRS
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Matthew - husband
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* Start with letters fiasco
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* flashback to:
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* Decisions
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* Deciding on surgery
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* Deciding on a surgeon
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* First round prep
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* Getting letters (part 1)
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* Getting the consult
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* The consult
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* The problem of hair
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* Laser
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* Electrolysis
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* Leading up to surgery
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* Getting letters (part 2)
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* The pre-op appointments
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* General medical
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* Surgeon
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* PT
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* Trans woman murdered in town a week before
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* Bowel prep
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* Driving and the night before
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* Surgery
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* The morning of
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* Waking up and the first night
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* The hospital stay
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* The bed
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* Bed rest
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* Bowel movements
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* Breathing and fever - incentive spirometer
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* The dressing
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* The first sight
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* Nerves mapping
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* Anxiety and pain
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* Medications
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* timing
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* Oxy/tylenol
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* Cephelaxin and the smell
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* The packing
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* The drains
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* The catheter
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* The packing itself
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* Peeing and showering
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* The post-op stay
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* The drive to the Airbnb
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* Getting partner
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* Drainage
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* Showering and company
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* Bacitracin
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* Getting off oxy
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* Getting comfortable
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* Walking with cane
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* Post-op visit
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* Leaving Airbnb
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* Powell's
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* Getting there early
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* Kat Campos and getting dilators
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* Home
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* The drive home
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* Seeing dogs
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* Dilating
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* Shopping
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* Healing
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* Dilating and increasing size
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* PT
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* Lifting
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* Walking
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* Breathing
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* Tensing/muscle control/kegels
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* Healing well
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* End with the concert?
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