%title It's Not About The Dishes :writing:non-fiction:essay-collection:polyam: * [ ] It's not about the dishes --- root cause analysis to work through strife * [ ] Catering to the one with the most restrictions * [ ] Witnessing ("the basic human need to be watched was once satisfied by God" Deus Ex, but it's a good quote) * [ ] relationships as coping mechanisms for upbringing * [ ] methodlogies - retrospectives, standups, and other enterprisey bullshit that can actually kind of help