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<p>For a while, when I was getting my psych degree, I stopped going to confession. I will admit that there was a brief time during those studies that I thought I understood quite a bit more than I actually do. I knew enough to be dangerous. I thought, “Ah yes, if confession is the catharsis of letting go of an internal stressor, I needn’t go to confession, so long as I have that regular release of spiritual energy!”</p>
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<p>But while confession certainly involves catharsis, that’s not its sole purpose. I got my catharsis from the class trip to a junk yard where we were given goggles and sledge hammers and let at a stack of cars, from letting a friend talk me into driving up into the mountains so that I could shoot his pistol, even from visiting a batting cage.</p>
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<p>But it wasn’t the right catharsis.</p>
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<p>I never felt like I was handling my sins when the bat made contact with the ball, and even when the ball hit me instead of the bat, I still had not served penance.</p>
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<p>I never felt like I was handling my sins when the bat made contact with the ball, and even when the ball hit me instead of the bat, I still had not served penance. I wasn’t shooting my guilt, not blasting away my unworthiness before God. I was just panting and yelping like an idiot in a fenced-in enclosure. I was just tasting cordite on the air, not the clean, cool flavor of the act of contrition.</p>
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<p>I lacked the post-catharsis cleansing, and so I went back to confession. I lacked the flavor of it.</p>
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<p>It is not anything so grand as synaesthesia. I don’t think that voicing my sins actually tastes like an artificial sweetness, one so sweet that it hurts your teeth despite the implicit promise that it not do that. It’s not an actual flavor in my mouth, just this sense so strong that that is how sin must taste, that is how confession must taste.</p>
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<p>Thinking back, this has always been the case for me, at least when talking about anything of such dire import. </p>
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<p>I remember the night I decided to leave St John’s. I remember leaving the library and walking to the quad, taking the long way home to put off walking alongside traffic on the road. I remember praying as I looked up to the stars, and then as I sat on the grass, and then I remembered that same tang of confession in my mouth as I said to myself, “I don’t want to be here.”</p>
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<p>I tasted that again today, still taste it.</p>
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<p>“Forgive me, Father, for I have sinned,” is when the taste started. “It has been three weeks since my last confession.”</p>
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<p>Citrusy-sweet words from a clumsy mouth.</p>
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<p>“I have felt desire towards someone…”</p>
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<p>Sweet, gritty, leaving the tongue feeling a little too dry.</p>
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<p>”…who I am not sure feels the same towards me…”</p>
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<p>Salivary glands working overtime.</p>
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<p>”…and it is taking a toll on me. I can’t think of anything else.”</p>
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<p>And then, with a few words, the taste beginning to lessen, the words of your priest: “Are these thoughts adulterous in nature?”</p>
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<p>“No, Father. She is not married.”</p>
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<p>“Do they stem from lust?”</p>
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<p>I frowned down at my paws. “I don’t think so. It is an overwhelming need to be with her, even just romantically.”</p>
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<p>“Like you need to possess her? Keep her?”</p>
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<p>“Perhaps. Certainly to an extent.”</p>
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<p>“And what have you done to address these thoughts?”</p>
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<p>The crushing weight of my iniquity sliding from the back of my neck to rest on my shoulders. I shrug weakly. “I have been praying for understanding, but Father, I don’t want to rid myself of them. I want to fulfill them. I want to be good to her, I want her to be happy. I just also want to be a part of that.”</p>
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<p>“I see.”</p>
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<p>“So maybe it is a form of jealousy, or perhaps envy. I’m yearning for something I can’t have.”</p>
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<p>“You can’t have that fulfillment?”</p>
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<p>“No I just…” I fumbled for words before coming up with, “It just feels like I can’t have that, like it’s out of reach.”</p>
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<p>There was silence on the other side of the screen. Words failed me, then. The tang on my lips was starting to fade, so perhaps I had voiced all I could.</p>
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<p>“For these and all my past sins, I ask pardon of God, penance, and absolution from you, Father.”</p>
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<p>A soft hum on the other side of the screen, that soft noise the priest always makes when considering penance. And then, “Alright, my son. Say five Our Fathers for your penance. I also want you think on who it is that you’re envious of, or what you are jealous of. Ask yourself who it is that you are hurting in these situations as you pray.”</p>
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<p>The weight on my shoulders slid down and off of me. “Thank you, Father.”</p>
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<p>(certainly not talking to kay, go into talking with god with scene from discerment)</p>
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