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-                <h2 id="codrin-balancastor-the-balan-clade">Codrin Bălan#Castor &mdash; The Bălan clade</h2>
+                <h2 id="codrin-balancastor-sorina-balan-fwd-ioan-balan">Codrin Bălan#Castor &mdash; Sorina Bălan &mdash; Fwd: Ioan Bălan</h2>
+<p>Ioan,</p>
+<p>Taking your advice along with that of True Name, of all people,<sup id="fnref:tnhelps"><a class="footnote-ref" href="#fn:tnhelps">1</a></sup> I finally wrote to Sorina in a very open and, I hope, welcoming way. I want to find out where we stand, of course, but I also don&rsquo;t want to push <em>that</em> much of a discussion on her. Just&hellip;say hi and ensure that the line of communication remains open. I&rsquo;ve attached what I wrote just so you&rsquo;re up to date as well.</p>
+<p>All my best,</p>
+<p>Codrin#Castor</p>
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+<p>A part of me wonders if it&rsquo;s in response to the role you played between her and May Then My Name on Lagrange, offering a little bit of mediation to keep that gap bridged. I&rsquo;m too shy to ask, I think.&#160;<a class="footnote-backref" href="#fnref:tnhelps" title="Jump back to footnote 1 in the text">&#8617;</a></p>
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 <li class="done2"> <a href="010.html">Sorina → Ioan</a>: wonders about seeking out new partner to feel fulfilled before getting in touch with exes, never dated before, so what now? (sent before receiving Aurel&rsquo;s letter)</li>
 <li class="done2"> <a href="011.html">Ioan → Codrin#Pollux</a>: musing re: never been in a relationship before means never having to break up before (even if it&rsquo;s only temporary). Talked to May, who asked if it was like Rareş?</li>
 <li class="done2"> <a href="012.html">Sorina → Aurel and Ioan</a>: Why are we in so many relationships with Odists? That is, what do we get out of our relationships with each other?</li>
-<li class="done2"> <a href="013.html">Codrin#Pollux → Sorina, FWD: Ioan</a>: life with Serene and Dear, other Odist merges, but result doesn&rsquo;t stick around.</li>
-<li class="done0"> <a href="014.html">Codrin#Castor → clade</a>: to Sorina opening discussions</li>
+<li class="done2"> <a href="013.html">Codrin#Pollux → clade</a>: life with Serene and Dear, other Odist merges, but result doesn&rsquo;t stick around.</li>
+<li class="done0"> <a href="014.html">Codrin#Castor → Sorina, Fwd: Ioan</a>: to Sorina opening discussions</li>
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 <li class="done0"> Recapitulation<ol>