writing fiction novel gender
I had my own surgery in 2018, and my therapist suggested I write about my experience anonymously so that she could share it with one of her other clients who was looking at going through a similar process. That she did so a year before I started writing this is neither here nor there.
Either way, While Justice’s story closely follows my own in a lot of respects, it isn’t 100% the same. It’s the type of thing I’d like to be readable without losing any of the informative aspects. A lot of the process of going through surgery is incredibly recondite and awkward, and there’s no escaping that. The goal of this project is, first and foremost, to tell a story, but a close second is to provide an example of what one can expect in going through this process. To that end, I hope it helps.
To my mom, who changed my birthday to my surgery date.
Outline
Justice - trans woman getting GRS Matthew - husband
- Start with letters fiasco
- flashback to:
- Decisions
- Deciding on surgery
- Deciding on a surgeon
- First round prep
- Getting letters (part 1)
- Getting the consult
- The consult
- The problem of hair
- Laser
- Electrolysis
- Decisions
- Leading up to surgery
- Getting letters (part 2)
- The pre-op appointments
- General medical
- Surgeon
- PT
- Trans woman murdered in town a week before
- Bowel prep
- Driving and the night before
- Surgery
- The morning of
- Waking up and the first night
- The hospital stay
- The bed
- Bed rest
- Bowel movements
- Breathing and fever - incentive spirometer
- The dressing
- The first sight
- Nerves mapping
- Anxiety and pain
- Medications
- timing
- Oxy/tylenol
- Cephelaxin and the smell
- The packing
- The drains
- The catheter
- The packing itself
- Peeing and showering
- The post-op stay
- The drive to the Airbnb
- Getting partner
- Drainage
- Showering and company
- Bacitracin
- Getting off oxy
- Getting comfortable
- Walking with cane
- Post-op visit
- Leaving Airbnb
- Powell’s
- Getting there early
- Kat Campos and getting dilators
- Home
- The drive home
- Seeing dogs
- Dilating
- Shopping
- Healing
- Dilating and increasing size
- PT
- Lifting
- Walking
- Breathing
- Tensing/muscle control/kegels
- Healing well
- End with the concert?