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%title Untitled Surgery Novel
:writing:fiction:novel:gender:
I had my own surgery in 2018, and my therapist suggested I write about my experience anonymously so that she could share it with one of her other clients who was looking at going through a similar process. That she did so a year before I started writing this is neither here nor there.
Either way, While Justice's story closely follows my own in a lot of respects, it isn't 100% the same. It's the type of thing I'd like to be readable without losing any of the informative aspects. A lot of the process of going through surgery is incredibly recondite and awkward, and there's no escaping that. The goal of this project is, first and foremost, to tell a story, but a close second is to provide an example of what one can expect in going through this process. To that end, I hope it helps.
> To my mom, who changed my birthday to my surgery date.
## Outline
Justice - trans woman getting GRS
Matthew - husband
* Start with letters fiasco
* flashback to:
* Decisions
* Deciding on surgery
* Deciding on a surgeon
* First round prep
* Getting letters (part 1)
* Getting the consult
* The consult
* The problem of hair
* Laser
* Electrolysis
* Leading up to surgery
* Getting letters (part 2)
* The pre-op appointments
* General medical
* Surgeon
* PT
* Trans woman murdered in town a week before
* Bowel prep
* Driving and the night before
* Surgery
* The morning of
* Waking up and the first night
* The hospital stay
* The bed
* Bed rest
* Bowel movements
* Breathing and fever - incentive spirometer
* The dressing
* The first sight
* Nerves mapping
* Anxiety and pain
* Medications
* timing
* Oxy/tylenol
* Cephelaxin and the smell
* The packing
* The drains
* The catheter
* The packing itself
* Peeing and showering
* The post-op stay
* The drive to the Airbnb
* Getting partner
* Drainage
* Showering and company
* Bacitracin
* Getting off oxy
* Getting comfortable
* Walking with cane
* Post-op visit
* Leaving Airbnb
* Powell's
* Getting there early
* Kat Campos and getting dilators
* Home
* The drive home
* Seeing dogs
* Dilating
* Shopping
* Healing
* Dilating and increasing size
* PT
* Lifting
* Walking
* Breathing
* Tensing/muscle control/kegels
* Healing well
* End with the concert?