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%title Way torn up about this... %date 2009-07-22 22:53:22 :diary:livejournal:fossils:

Purged email conversation

On Wed, Jul 22, 2009 at 3:30 PM, Donna wrote:
> The story I got from the sheriff's deputy was a bit disjointed,  He was
> pretty shaken up by the whole thing and the friends were not being very
> cooperative.  P and R and 1 or 2 friends went out to get some
> drugs.  P and R crushed the pills and injected them in the car and
> passed out immediately.  The friend(s) drove them home and just thought they
> were passed out.  They took them into the house and checked on them an hour
> later and found them dead.  The friends then freaked out and it took a few
> hours for them to call the police and they kept giving different stories.
>  
> The police showed up to what they thought was a crime scene and the dogs
> wouldn't let them near the bodies so they had to call animal control.  The
> house didn't have any electricity, the windows were all open and it was full
> of cockroaches and filthy.  The police are going to keep trying to find the
> person who sold them the drugs but no one is talking.  They are not viewing
> it as homicide because P and R took the drugs willingly.
>  
> Thats all the info I have.  It would have really helped if they had a will
> so we could have kept their ashes together and known more info about the
> dogs.  Without being able to marry or a will, their wishes can't be enforced
> and I am dead certain that P would have wanted his ashes to be with
> R's.  They loved each other so much. I'm glad they were together when
> they died and they went very quickly.
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> On Wed, Jul 22, 2009 at 3:06 PM,  wrote:
>>
>> Mom,
>>
>> Thanks for letting me know what's going on with the remains and the dogs -
>> I hope things work out with M.
>>
>> When you and H were talking, you mentioned something about a couple of
>> friends; all I knew was that you had received a call. If it's not too much
>> trouble or too weird of a request, what's the story behind what happened?
>> I'm curious for more information because this is affecting me more than I
>> thought it would. It's not that P and I were terribly close, but I did
>> look up to the devotion in his and R's relationship.
>>
>> Love,
>> Matt
>>
>> On Jul 22, 2009 2:51pm, Donna  wrote:
>> > Hi Matt,
>> >
>> >  
>> >
>> > It was so nice to see you and James yesterday.  I'm glad you could make
>> > it.
>> >
>> >  
>> >
>> > I talked to R's brother again.  They are going to save his ashes
>> > and bury them when his dad dies.  I was hoping that P and R could
>> > have their ashes stay together.  If they were married, it would not be an
>> > issue.  Their insensitivity is upsetting but I keep telling myself that it
>> > is just ashes.
>> >
>> >
>> >  
>> >
>> > I talked to the shelter manager where his dogs were taken.  Apparently,
>> > the animal control officer was very shaken up by the situation since the
>> > dogs wouldn't leave P and were so protective.  They haven't done the
>> > temperment testing yet to determine if they are adoptable because they were
>> > so traumatized, but maybe tomorrow.  I gave them P's full name and they
>> > are going to try and find a vet in the area who may have seen the dogs
>> > because they don't even know the dogs' names.  I don't think I can take 3
>> > more dogs.  I tried checking on flights down there to check on them myself
>> > but it is pretty expensive.
>> >
>> >
>> >  
>> >
>> > I got in touch with M's husband and left a message but she hasn't
>> > called back.  I hope we can get her to sign the consent form for the
>> > cremation.
>> >
>> >  
>> >
>> > Talk to you soon.
>> >
>> > Love,
>> >
>> > Mom
>> >
>> >  
>> >
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