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<p>date: 2020-01-15
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<p>Were you able to become a truly sexual person, would you?</p>
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<p>Probably.</p>
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<p>What would that look like?</p>
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<p>I&rsquo;m not sure. Sexual liberation? All that stuff online, being able to do at least some of it in person? Some fantasies coming true? I&rsquo;m writing this on my way to a furry convention where I&rsquo;ll be around three of my partners. Maybe it would look like having comfortable sex with them. Maybe it would be some low-consequences sex with friends, many of whom will also be there.</p>
<p>Perhaps it would simply look like less shame.</p>
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<p>Shame, according to Brené Brown, is rooted in vulnerability. Shame is the sense that &ldquo;you are bad&rdquo;, as opposed to the &ldquo;you did a bad thing&rdquo; that goes along with guilt.</p>
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<p>Yes. And there is some aspect of vulnerability that is healthy, but just an aspect of it, not the whole of it.</p>
<p>Were I able to become a truly sexual person, I&rsquo;d probably do it.</p>
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<p>Do you feel bad that you aren&rsquo;t, then?</p>
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<p>To an extent, but not bad enough to hunt down some sort of &ldquo;fix&rdquo;. I don&rsquo;t feel broken, <em>per se</em>, at least not always, but I do feel like I&rsquo;m missing out on something wonderful. I don&rsquo;t feel broken, but maybe I do feel a little jealous.</p>
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			`<p>Were you able to become a truly sexual person, would you?</p>`
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			`<p>Probably.</p>`
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			`<p>What would that look like?</p>`
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update from sparkleup 2020-06-24 07:15:07 +00:00			`<p>I’m not sure. Sexual liberation? All that stuff online, being able to do at least some of it in person? Some fantasies coming true? I’m writing this on my way to a furry convention where I’ll be around three of my partners. Maybe it would look like having comfortable sex with them. Maybe it would be some low-consequences sex with friends, many of whom will also be there.</p>`
update from sparkleup 2020-04-25 05:00:08 +00:00			`<p>Perhaps it would simply look like less shame.</p>`
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update from sparkleup 2020-06-24 07:15:07 +00:00			`<p>Shame, according to Brené Brown, is rooted in vulnerability. Shame is the sense that “you are bad”, as opposed to the “you did a bad thing” that goes along with guilt.</p>`
update from sparkleup 2020-04-25 05:00:08 +00:00			`</blockquote>`
			`<p>Yes. And there is some aspect of vulnerability that is healthy, but just an aspect of it, not the whole of it.</p>`
update from sparkleup 2020-06-24 07:15:07 +00:00			`<p>Were I able to become a truly sexual person, I’d probably do it.</p>`
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update from sparkleup 2020-06-24 07:15:07 +00:00			`<p>To an extent, but not bad enough to hunt down some sort of “fix”. I don’t feel broken, <em>per se</em>, at least not always, but I do feel like I’m missing out on something wonderful. I don’t feel broken, but maybe I do feel a little jealous.</p>`
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