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<h1>Zk | 009</h1>
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<p>date: 2020-01-15
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<p>Were you able to become a truly sexual person, would you?</p>
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<p>Probably.</p>
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<p>What would that look like?</p>
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<p>I’m not sure. Sexual liberation? All that stuff online, being able to do at least some of it in person? Some fantasies coming true? I’m writing this on my way to a furry convention where I’ll be around three of my partners. Maybe it would look like having comfortable sex with them. Maybe it would be some low-consequences sex with friends, many of whom will also be there.</p>
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<p>Perhaps it would simply look like less shame.</p>
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<p>Shame, according to Brené Brown, is rooted in vulnerability. Shame is the sense that “you are bad”, as opposed to the “you did a bad thing” that goes along with guilt.</p>
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<p>Yes. And there is some aspect of vulnerability that is healthy, but just an aspect of it, not the whole of it.</p>
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<p>Were I able to become a truly sexual person, I’d probably do it.</p>
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<p>Do you feel bad that you aren’t, then?</p>
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<p>To an extent, but not bad enough to hunt down some sort of “fix”. I don’t feel broken, <em>per se</em>, at least not always, but I do feel like I’m missing out on something wonderful. I don’t feel broken, but maybe I do feel a little jealous.</p>
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